tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post5505156497663499741..comments2023-08-01T05:27:18.440-05:00Comments on I ♥ Pretty Things: Why Do We Have To Be So Different?Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10929718531153708076noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post-16564062028986642082008-02-22T07:45:00.000-06:002008-02-22T07:45:00.000-06:00I say if he is task oriented just give him a list:...I say if he is task oriented just give him a list: tonight I need you to 1. rub my back 2. let me cry about it with you 3. talk to me - sometimes its so hard to know what to do its easier to just not. It is a hard and confusing time - you're not going crazy - you're going through it.Janiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08455764039212519400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post-54808802224790058762008-02-21T23:06:00.000-06:002008-02-21T23:06:00.000-06:00Love this quote...“If He brings you to it, He can ...Love this quote...<BR/>“If He brings you to it, He can bring you through it.” <BR/><BR/>Your angel had a bigger purpose!ChellaJ [Rachelle]https://www.blogger.com/profile/13250558497694874339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post-19011856435565837082008-02-21T21:08:00.000-06:002008-02-21T21:08:00.000-06:00two words: men are from mars, women are from venus...two words: men are from mars, women are from venus. read it. (ok more than 2 words but you get the point) men really are from another planet but it really does work in the long run. <BR/><BR/>you both have to deal with this loss in your own ways. it's no one's fault.Practically Perfect In Every Wayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08602887588935416610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post-67351858700582891862008-02-21T20:18:00.000-06:002008-02-21T20:18:00.000-06:00Sarah, my Sarah. I have so much to say to you. Y...Sarah, my Sarah. I have so much to say to you. You are not crazy. You are a mother.My name is Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17085801818816126694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post-61217915322224514482008-02-21T16:54:00.000-06:002008-02-21T16:54:00.000-06:00I'm here for you Sarah. I can totally relate. I ...I'm here for you Sarah. I can totally relate. I found that talking to other women who had had a miscarriage was more helpful than talking about it with my husband (he didn't want to talk about it). If you need to talk, you can call me anytime. ~ MelissaMelissa G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13329332658805276752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post-65527641271599216242008-02-21T13:01:00.000-06:002008-02-21T13:01:00.000-06:00Dude, we need to go to lunch. It won't fix anythin...Dude, we need to go to lunch. It won't fix anything, I just realized that. <BR/><BR/>My sister lost a baby a year ago ... she was 29 weeks along and he only lived for a couple minutes ... I'm sure you've heard the story. Anyway, she is still recovering from her loss and her husband seemed to pick up and move on with life a couple weeks after the funeral. We are moms. It's like the one thing that we come knowing how to do. So, it's like asking the impossible when we're given trials like this ... I'm so sorry you're going through this. Dylan will always forgive you. Maybe write him a note when you're in a 'good' mood and then when you know that you're being 'irrational' ... give it to him. ? I don't know. <BR/><BR/>I do know that doctors have said that when women miscarry, they are still 'blessed' with all the range of horomones as if they'd given birth ... for what it's worth, I was psychotic after I had Ryan. I'll be praying for you. Call me if you want to talk. Hang in there!<BR/><BR/>HUGS,<BR/><BR/>JGary Churchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13980752257125914038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post-91175378466068915042008-02-21T12:06:00.000-06:002008-02-21T12:06:00.000-06:00i thought you might like this:http://blog.cjanerun...i thought you might like this:<BR/>http://blog.cjanerun.com/<BR/><BR/>this lady is lds and has a really fun blog..she is finally pregnant after trying forever. she has a really good post today about enduring trials.kira leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12966559015281097019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44258235202366360.post-34309434802994709052008-02-21T11:45:00.000-06:002008-02-21T11:45:00.000-06:00{{{more hugs}}}Yes, husbands definitely deal with ...{{{more hugs}}}<BR/><BR/>Yes, husbands definitely deal with miscarriages differently than wives do. <BR/><BR/>My husband didn't really talk about it much afterwards. Whereas it totally consumed me. Then I found myself getting angry at him because I thought if he didn't talk about it then that meant it didn't hurt him like it did me. Finally one day he said to me... "It makes me sad but I feel like if I talk about it, it'll just make you more sad and I don't want you to be sad". <BR/><BR/>Do know (and it sounds like you do deep down) that your great hubby is suffering from the loss of the pregnancy too. You're right, women do deal with this sort of thing differently. But at the same time it IS different for us. I was in love with that little growing baby inside of me from the second I found out I was pregnant. It was a part of me (even if it was only for 6 1/2 weeks). Guys don't get to experience that so personally until it's much more apparent physically with their wives that there's a baby growing inside.<BR/><BR/>Like I said before, it is totally sane to feel the crazy range of emotions. I didn't know how I was going to make it through that first week but I did. <BR/><BR/>Love you! And always praying and thinking of you!!Elizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16891872963487585784noreply@blogger.com